There is a rising movement, gaining
momentum across the land for children to leave their high school teams and go
off to play on an “elite” travel team. These teams which cost thousands of
dollars to play on have a very flawed premise, in my opinion.
Talk to the children that have gone
through this process, and I have, you will hear a story much different than the
glory and fame it is supposed to provide. In one interview on my website you
will hear a young man describe what he went through, the injuries he suffered
and the time away from his classmates in high school, and how his family is having
quite dilemma on whether or not to send the youngest sibling through hat same process
and journey.
Remember, every player on this
travel team is trying to get better to go to ANOTHER higher level team so the
atmosphere is ripe for cliques and innuendos. You add the financial pressure
the money brings to the table and that certainly does not seem to me to be an
atmosphere rich in positives and life skill development. You spend a lot more
time as an adult getting along with people than you do competing with them.
In High School, they are just your friends you
hang out with. You can play pickup games in any sport with them just to have fun.
PLAY FOR FUN!
These organizations are under the
assumption, all the while making a profit, that people will buy into the
thought process that the better team you play on, the better the chances are
that your son or daughter will receive a Division I athletic scholarship. That,
in my opinion, is simply not true for the VAST majority of the children who
play on these teams.
The coaches I have seen wear their
gear everywhere inviting recognition and status to their particular team and
organization. By adding a name or an affiliation with a professional sports team
they entice people to drink the Kool aid, and follow, like lemmings to the
cliff, with a notion of grandeur, attention, status, and financial rewards.
Stats don’t lie, only one percent of
all the kids who go to college play at the Division I level and only half of
them ply for free. Many get no athletic SCHOLARSHIP money whatsoever.
Since I am not a “gotcha” guy, and my company
Frozen Shorts is not a company looking to expose any one person or organization,
I will analyze the facts, as to what is going on currently with the youth
sports paradigm, interpret them for you and explain the consequences of the
actions taken for the long term best interests for the children playing youth
sports, or the lack thereof.
Let’s start with the premise that
the better the team you play on the better the competition you will play, the
better you will get. This is simply not true, in my opinion. Let me explain why.
It is a false premise and therefore it will have a false conclusion.
This team you are on has to have tuition,
love that new word, to lay on the team. The coaches get paid the organization
gets paid, and by whom? YOU! So, it is in their best interests to keep the
money rolling in. There is also the problem as to the other teams you play.
What if they don’t recruit the same quality of players that your teams as? What
if they have players that are much better? Am I supposed to believe that
traveling 500 miles to win or lose 2-1 is better for your development than
playing on a local team and losing or winning by the same score? What if there
is a blow out? How is that competitive? If I traveled 500 miles to play a game
in an “elite” team concept and the game was a blowout either way I would not
for a minute think that was great competition.
The Ivy League colleges are great
colleges. But if your child does not have the grades or the family does not
have the finances to afford and Ivy League education or simply does not fit in
to that life style on campus does that mean he or she will not end up in life
with a better education, better job, better marriage, better family, than those
who attend there that don’t have a family history of tremendous financial wealth?
You see it’s not just playing at a perceived higher level, it’s the FIT! It’s
the makeup of the team and the character of the players and COACHES.
I have heard of one of these teams requiring
the parents to sign a contract even before their child tries out that they will
agree to play for the team. Let me explain that little ditty. Why would a team
or organization do that? Well, in my opinion, and it is an educated one, the reason
is simple. Children were trying out for the team to judge how good they were
against others trying out at that level, realized that it wasn’t all that much
better than what they already doing and declined the invitation to play on the
team. This was their way of keeping talent because they were sick of calling
players to tell them that they had made the team and having the players decline
to play for them.
I have also heard of teams and
organizations that will not allow the children who play on their teams play any
other sport. Their mantra of more is better is quite flawed in my opinion. I am
also personally aware through my research and data that it is not healthy for a
child to play one sport year round. It is that plain and simple. So how can something
that is unhealthy for you. Turn out to be a positive? Oh wait; you want the
exception to prove the rule. False premise false conclusion.
MOST of the Olympic athletes played multiple
sports. Most great athletes understand that there are TREMENDOUS advantages to
the by playing multiple sports. First, you give your muscles and MIND a rest from
doing the same thing over and over. Secondly absence does make the heart grow
fonder. Third, you meet and play with different kids in different sports where
you might not be the best player on that team in that sport. That teaches you humility
and sharing. It also exposes you to different styles of coaching and interaction
with different adults.
Let us say this team gathers players
from different communities, which they do, in a couple hundred mile radius. The
very fact that a lot of these children have to travel a hundred miles or so during
the week just to practice when they could be studying is a detriment to their
long term development. Next there is the physical wear and tear of practicing,
the stress of driving back and forth a couple times a week over an extended
period of time, and the time sitting in a car that can only decrease the ability
of the mind and the body to recover.
Now there certainly is the argument that
many children have done this to achieve greatness. We have all heard of the
family who flew across the country so there son or daughter could play on an
elite team, and by doing so achieved a Division scholarship or eventually a professional
contract. What you don’t see is how MANY others do this that you don’t hear
about, and fail. The FACTS states that way more children and families have
followed this path and come up empty than have achieved a full ride Division I
scholarship.
So why isn’t
that fact a prominent part of the recruiting process for these teams and
organizations? Could it be that so many people and organizations are making
money for the unsuspecting families that they simply don’t want the gravy train
to stop?
The money the families spend, for
the most part far exceeds the amount of financial aid scholarship money. So now
we are down to the nitty gritty of this whole youth sports elite travel evolution.
Ego and money. The people are being led into believing, and let’s make sure I
am clear on this, they want to believe, that writing a check will buy you
talent and therefore that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, the Division I
scholarships.
Look, the more rested you are the
better you will play. The less outside negative stress you have surrounding
your team and the players on it the better you ill play. The more positive reinforcement
you get form teammates coaches and parents the better you will play, and the better
you will get. Now if you think those characteristics are exclusive to an “Elite’
travel team, than my book and philosophy are not for you. However if you are in
the vast majority of people who are questioning this new mantra that more is
better, I thank you for listening and I hope you will consider buying my book Stop
the Tsunami in Youth Sports and let’s get back to the premise that playing
youth sports for fun is the most basic sound fundamental reason to have our
children be health both physically and mentally now and in the future.
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