It is the
time of year where once again the talk around high school sports points to the
sectional playoffs in each sport. Along the way, while working with many
coaches, athletes, parents, and talking to Athletic Directors I have heard a
curious new mantra. “We need to get as many sectional points as possible for
seeding purposes.”
Now this in
itself is not disturbing or new. A team wanting to get a higher seed in a
tournament is part of why we play and coach. But there is a troubling buzz in
the background. It is almost like a white noise. These signals, mostly in the
background, provide a constant tone that differentiates this desire for
sectional points and real life coaching expectations and playing applications.
Let me explain.
Over the
course of the three seasons this year in high school athletics I have met,
counseled, spoke, trained, and listened to as many people as possible. I have
heard a new mantra emerge.” I will not play teams that can cost me sectional
points or a championship.” It is not said directly. It is not even inferred by
the participants. When you start to listen and question people I as I have in
and around high school athletics, you hear “it is always the other team” that doesn’t
want to play us. It is never their team, nor even their choice, but it is a
curious coincidence that these scheduling conflicts appear over and over again,
with the same teams, the teams that are higher up in the standings.
Now as a
coach and player who believes in the mantra: “If you want to be the best, you
have to play the best.” I am troubled by this new concept. Not only does it
hinder the development of players on a team, by constantly playing and coaching
to “win”, but it gives an excuse for entitlement. Coaches can manage the game
to win instead of coaching the kids to get better. It is a convenient excuse to
not play certain players.
My U-19
travel baseball team was given a choice by the league we were in to ply in the
A division, or B division. I explained to the players on our team, which had no
one over the age of 17, which I would prefer to play in the A division as that
is the only way to get better. The completion would be tough, and there were no
guaranteed victories anywhere on the schedule. I asked them privately what
division they wanted to play. It was unanimous.
After the season was over one of the parents
came up to me and complained about our record. She was used to winning and this
year we did not win many games. But boy, oh boy, the players and teams we
played against were awesome. All the kids agreed. Not one kid complained all
year when we were struggling. They thrived on the competition.
Conversely
my son played on a team where the coach purposely played in much weaker division
than they could have played in. When they lost in the first round of the
playoffs, the coach and staff blamed the loss on the other team’s ringers.
Read more
about it in my book “Stop the Tsunami in Youth Sports.”
Never once
did I try, as a coach, to avoid scheduling a certain opponent. On many occasions
I have scheduled in youth sports, modified, high school sports, and college the
very best opponent every single time that I could. And if I couldn’t get them
on the schedule this year, I found a way to play them the next year. I would
rather play the best team in our league or the best opponent out there in non
league games 5 times during the year rather than to play the worse team once.
Playing those teams is how you get better. Not playing those teams is all about
ego.
But now I
hear it over and over, in many sports, and many levels, it’s all about winning.
I hear from one coach that another coach refuses to play them. I hear from
other coaches that they have this phenomenal record, yet when I look at their
schedule there are an automatic 10-15 wins on their schedule.
Recently I asked a coach about putting
together a division of all the best teams each year on one division. He looked
at me like I had three heads. He said no one would ever go for it because everyone
wanted to win their division and play for a sectional championship.
Well,
playing a tough schedule is how you and your team get better. Letting a lot of
kids play so you have great inner team competition is the way to go. Letting
them compete, without worrying about who is going to win one particular game,
and more about the team getting better is what we have a responsibility to
teach our children. This way leads to more championships than any other way I have
ever seen.
But once
again, it comes back to entitlement. It is just in another form. This time it
is a white noise in the background, which will soon be a loud blast to our
senses
If we will
listen.
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